We’ve been looking at friendships the last few days. Things to look for in a friend. Things to avoid in looking for a friend. Pitfalls to avoid in friendships. I have a final word for you this morning: the blessings enjoyed in friendship. When you find a true friend, someone you can let close to you and with whom you feel comfortable opening your heart, someone you can trust with yourself and whose wisdom, input, and opinion you trust, there are some real blessings in such a friendship. Continue reading “The blessings of true friendship”
What to avoid in looking for a friend
Yesterday I gave some suggestions about what to look for in a friend. Three traits that mark a good friend are a fear of God, loyalty, and honesty. Today I’d like to suggest four traits that you should avoid in looking for a friend. Continue reading “What to avoid in looking for a friend”
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What to look for in a friend
A good friend is a rare treasure. There are some people we’re sure are trusted and dependable friends; but trouble comes and they abandon us. And there are others of whom we’re unsure who, in trouble, prove to be true to us. So what should we look for and avoid in making friends? Continue reading “What to look for in a friend”
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What’s so bad about pride?
“There is one vice of which no man in the world is free; which every one in the world loathes when he sees it in someone else; and of which hardly any people, except Christians, ever imagine that they are guilty themselves…. There is no fault which makes a man more unpopular, and no fault which we are more unconscious of in ourselves. And the more we have it ourselves, the more we dislike it in others” (C. S. Lewis). That universal vice, that most unpopular fault, is pride. Continue reading “What’s so bad about pride?”
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The church’s inner life of prayer, Col 4.2-4
One of the best ways our weekly gatherings for worship help us is by teaching us and reminding us of our corporate spirituality. And we really do need to be reminded of this. We’re so in tune with our individual spirituality that we’re prone to forget our corporate spirituality. Continue reading “The church’s inner life of prayer, Col 4.2-4”
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Is Jesus precious to you?
Precious things are things we dearly prize, things we keep close, watch closely, and, in a sense cannot live without. We like many things and would not easily part with them, but precious things are things we love and can’t bear to be without. I wonder, how precious is Jesus to you? Continue reading “Is Jesus precious to you?”
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Thoughts of His return
Today my thoughts are taken up with our Lord’s promise to return for His church. I think of His words in Jn 14.2-3, “In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.” O the joy of that promise! O the blessing of those precious words to my soul! Will you pause and think with me a moment? Continue reading “Thoughts of His return”
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Thoughts of earth
My thoughts soared high yesterday as I dwelt upon the joys, the happiness, and the eternal fullness of living in the presence of God and growing in the knowledge of God forever. Today my thoughts are sobered by the present realities of dwelling upon this earth. Life, as the poets say, is a vale of tears. Jesus said, in this world you will have tribulation (Jn 16.33), and Paul said, we must enter the kingdom of God through many tribulations (Acts 14.22). Why, then, should we expect comfort in this world? Continue reading “Thoughts of earth”
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Thoughts of heaven
This morning I spent some time meditating upon heaven. It is such a vast subject that I found myself lost in the thoughts of it! The joys that await us cannot be less infinite than the God in whom we’ll find those joys and from whom we’ll receive them. And though our souls shall be perfect in comparison to what they are now, and delighted and ravished with the presence of God Most High, yet they shall ever be on the increase, growing wiser and wiser in God as the ages roll on eternally. Let me share some of my thoughts with you. Continue reading “Thoughts of heaven”
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The Duties of Slaves and Masters, Col 3.22-4.1
We are grateful to God that the gospel has brought about the abolition of slavery. Yet, as Paul wrote in a day when slavery was a reality it’s important to understand what God expected of slaves and masters whom He was pleased to convert. If you have any questions about this passage I would encourage you to listen to the sermon here. This is an excerpt from the application section of my sermon.
How do we apply Col 3.22-4.1 to our lives today? Let me suggest three things:
One, this passage teaches us how to respond to difficult circumstances. Similar to those in slavery, we sometimes find ourselves in hard circumstances which it’s beyond our control to change. This text teaches us that when God has us in adverse situations that we can’t change and that, for whatever reason, He’s not changing, we’re to respond in a way that recognizes and submits to His Lordship over the situation. This means we’re to respond with faith and trust in His wisdom, with obedience to what He expects of us in that place, and with a happy resolve to make the most and best spiritual good of where we are for as long as we’re there.
Because, let there be no doubt in your mind, until God delivers you, He expects you, like the slaves to whom Paul wrote, to honor Him right where you are, to work as one enlisted in His service, and to put both your back and your heart into your work. Because neither the injustice of the person over you, nor the difficulty of the work required of you absolve you of your calling to honor God where He’s put you. **Are you serving God, right where you are, with all your heart, or are you childishly pouting over God’s hard providence?
Two, this passage teaches us something about our work. It teaches us that whatever our station is, it’s a stewardship from God; and regardless whether it profits us any in a temporal sense, if it brings honor to God then He’ll see that our needs are provided and that we get more than our wages in heaven. Because this passage teaches us that when we welcome our station as a stewardship from God, not a single duty goes unnoticed by Him and not a single act of obedience will be unrewarded on that Day. Since every one of us is ultimately in God’s service, He’ll see that we receive our inheritance in full (1Cor 15.58). **Can you expect a reward from God for your work? Which is to say, is your work pleasing and honoring to God, or will it be weighed in the balance on that Day and found wanting?
Three, the principles governing slavery have an obvious application to our services of free contract and voluntary employment. Both the one who works and the one who hires are as free as can be before the contract is signed; but once it’s signed, it becomes a bond of engagement with demands and expectations, and rights and duties, similar to what was expected of slaves and masters.
The one who hired himself out and promised to perform a job or render a service is expected by God to work with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord, heartily, as unto the Lord and not for men. He’s not to be a people-pleaser who only works when the one who hired him is watching. He’s to be a God-fearer, who does his work to be seen by God, out of love for God, and renders it as an offering to God.
And the one who hired him is expected by God to treat his worker with justice and fairness out of obedience to the Lord. He’s not to be harsh in the way he treats him, unfair in what he pays him, or unreasonable in what he expects. He’s to treat him as he would be treated, mindful that ultimately they both work under the Lordship of the same supreme Master in heaven. And the result of this will be, not a confusion of who works and who hires, but rather a generous and friendly mutual respect for the services which each renders to the other: the one rendering the labor due, and the other rendering the wages due. **Are you a godly employee to your employer? or a godly employer to your employees? Does your work ethic prove you to be a God-fearing Christian, or does your weekly work ethic call your Sunday faith into question?
**I ended the sermon with a summary look at the picture of a Christian home as Paul presents it in Col 3.18-4.1. I can’t include that summary here and recommend listening to the sermon for that encouragement.
For now, may the Lord remind you that wherever you are, you’re in His service, and therefore may He enable you to serve Him fully, faithfully, and cheerfully, with all your heart.
Ever your soul’s well-wisher in Christ,
Dr. J
